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Motivational Poetry | Is this the best version of ‘YOU’

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As I sit down to pen down my deepest passions,

I breathe a sense of discontentment in the air;

“Close your eyes and tell me what you see”, she said

“Fog in my head”, I said after 10 seconds. 

“Is it the words that you never said?”

“Is it the regret you’ve carried for years”

“Is it their voices strangling you?”

“Is this the best you can be?” she kept questioning.

“I feel lost”, I said

“It is okay to be lost in the hues of life. 

But if you ever feel buried, remember, 

Your bones have grown, 

but what makes them has never changed.

So, Start where you stand”, Nadora said.

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7 Lines That Perfectly Describe The Badass Side of Women

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In today’s dynamic world, independent and strong are the two inevitable adjectives that need to be prefixed in an individual’s description, especially a woman. And indeed, the women today, have redefined their existence and purpose in life.

Yes, I am talking about that inspiring and motivating breed of women who have redefined ‘bold’ and made ‘being on my own’ look sexy:

1. She is simple to understand, as simple as Quantum Physics!

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2. What’s a queen without her king?, “More Powerful” she replied.

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3. She knew she’s fat, but in all the right places!

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4. She adored the color pink, even when men wore it!

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5. The World kept asking her to get married! Unfortunately, she was a bad listener!

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6. Someone told her Prince Charming is waiting, so she asked him to wait until she’s ready.

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7. She tried being a good girl but soon she realized it was not her shot of tequila!

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She has the courage to embrace the change and is always up for challenges. She is not ready to settle for less and takes the responsibility of being happy. She is a woman beyond repair! She has fought a battle to reach where she is and there are many more to win. She is the epitome of beauty and the personification of courage. She is the vivid example of ‘emotions and intellect’. She is a Woman.

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One Zodiac Sign That Is Not Meant To Be With You Ever

One Zodiac Sign That Is Not Meant To Be With You Ever

I don’t have a reason, I just don’t happen to like her.” Sounds familiar?

Well, it isn’t just the case with you but with most of us. We happen to dislike people for absolutely no reason at all, and truth is, we don’t really care much about the reason. We are unable to get along with them. Nothing about them seems to convince us that they might be likable in any sense.

This happens because our star signs clash and trust me, there’s nothing you can do about it except that you stay aware and keep away from those zodiac signs. It’s better for you to take a step back today than going ahead to marriage, only to have it end in disaster. Likewise, there are times when you tend to like someone and everything seems to be perfect about them. You start acting crazy around your crush. However, I completely understand that it isn’t easy to rationalize our instincts at each moment, so, here astrology comes to your rescue.

Astrology can tell which sign you should stay away from or which sign is not meant for you or which sign are you least compatible with, in fact, astrology can also help you with ways in which you can attract your crush based on your Zodiac Sign.

Let’s find out which zodiac sign is not meant for you.

ARIES (March 21 – April 20)

Cancer Is Not Meant For You

Too blunt and dead in the eye, Aries say things without giving second thoughts. Aries are impulsive and determined. You always need a little breathing space to do your own thing in a relationship.REPORT THIS AD

However, Cancers, on the other hand, are emotional beings and with the traits you possess, you can simply wreck a Cancer’s heart. For you, Cancer would appear to be overwhelming and be suffocating to handle, and for them, Aries would appear to be arrogant and unemotional.

TAURUS (April 21 – May 21)

Sagittarius Is Not Meant For You

Taurus are stable, reliable and stubborn. Extremely dominant and ambitious, you have an eye for beauty. Holding a reputation of being brutally honest, you can be highly insensitive at times because of being upfront in your words.

The one sign that is the least compatible with you is Sagittarius. The phrase ‘free bird’ is absolutely befitting for Sagittarius. They are spontaneous and fanciful. If you get involved with a Sagittarius, there would be a great mismatch of energies, which will eventually come to an end.

GEMINI (22 May – 21 June)

You Are Least Compatible With Virgo

Expressive, quick-witted and intelligent Gemini might be attracted to the fun-loving way Virgos lead their lives, however, Gemini would not appreciate the bluntness and candid opinions of the Virgos. It might come to them as sheer arrogance to a Gemini.

Where Geminis have a reputation of being extroverts and thrive for social interactions, Virgos, on the other hand, tend to be rather reserved with their sentiments. Geminis and Virgos are not opposite but definitely a bad match.

CANCER (22 June-22 July)

 You Are Least Compatible With Aquarius

The CRAB is very unpredictable and temperamental. So, the fear of rejection makes you prone to pain. On the other hand, Aquarians love freedom and are stubborn which makes the sensitive Cancers stay away from them. Cancer, being emotional and warm, seeks love and compassion from Aquarius, which they are not able to reciprocate.

Cancer has a very strong bond with the people they love, they are meant for commitment. However, Aquarius prefers to detach from people and are not good at emotional displays. So, in totality, both do not reflect good compatibility.

LEO: (23 July- 23 August)

Aries Is Not The Right Match For You

Leos are strongly driven by the desire of love and admiration, and you have some kind of royalty in them. You love being in the limelight. But Aries won’t let you have it. They are too egoistic to let anyone steal the limelight.

Aries are energetic and enthusiastic that they tend to put you backstage while they become the center of attention. So, you better have someone who supports you rather than challenging you and putting you on the back line all the time.

VIRGO (24 August- 22 September)

Cancer Is Not The Right Match For You

Intelligent, analytical, precise, Virgos are typically professional in whatever they do. While they criticize others and themselves too if something goes wrong unlike the Cancer. They have confusing personality despite being quite conservative.

Virgo, in the process of reaching perfection, does not care or become inconsiderate of the pain they are inflicting on others. Cancers are sensitive and emotional beings, you can really hurt them and cause them immense pain, which in turn, can be disrupting for you as well.

LIBRA (23 September- 23 October)

Scorpio Is Far Too Dangerous For You

Libra being the kind and gentle one is best skilled socially amongst all zodiac signs. You love peace and harmony. And therefore, in the process of maintaining peace everywhere, you end up stressing yourself.

However, in contrast, Scorpio is way too fierce and intense and love fighting. The commanding and passionate nature of Scorpio makes it difficult for Libra to handle. Scorpio is way too fanatical for Libra.

SCORPIO (24 October- 22 November)

Leo Is Definitely Not Your Partner

Scorpios are mysterious and intense which makes them either sexy or scary. You tend to be drawn towards darkness. Scorpio and Leo are not much different. Both are strongly aggressive and do not believe in compromising or bending, and hence, their union becomes difficult and can lead to sad endings.REPORT THIS AD

Both might be drawn by each other’s fascination, however, the coldness and anger make it difficult for the Scorpio to handle a Leo.

SAGITTARIUS (23 November- 21 December)

Capricorn Is Not Meant For You

Sagittarius, being reckless and impatient, like to wander without any plans.  You are spontaneous and tend to dislike anything or anyone which restricts your freedom to learn. That’s where the problem arises between Sagittarius and Capricorns.

So, the best way to stay with you is to appreciate and respect what you are doing, which is so not the case with Capricorns as they are the complete opposite. Capricorns believe in planning and rehearsing in advance, which is why it is impossible for the two to share same grounds.

CAPRICORN (22 December- 20 January)

 Aries Don’t Walk To The Beat Of The Same Drum

Though Capricorn and Aries are both highly motivated and make their way to reach the goals, still, the path chosen by them is different. Capricorn, being the planner, likes things in structural and organized manner, whereas, Aries are spontaneous in their actions.

And so, a lot of tolerance is needed on both sides to make it till the end, which of course doesn’t happen and therefore, the relationship often ends in a sad and bitter state.

AQUARIUS (21 January – 18 February)

Taurus Is The Wrong Match For You

Aquarius are visionaries and believes in change. You believe that change is very much needed to keep going in life, whereas, Taurus believes in simplicity and sticking to the grounds. Though both are difficult to understand and are stubborn in their opinions, Aquarius still gives high value to others’ opinions.

Taurus, on the other hand, has similar traits but showcase a different attitude towards life which is completely different to Aquarius and this is what brings in the compatibility issues.

PISCES (19 February-20 march)

Maintain Your Distance From The Aquarius

Though in the initial stages of a relationship, it might seem that you are going well with Aquarius, problems will start to cluster in the later stages when the freedom lover, Aquarius does not understand the compassion and affection of Pisces.

You, being sensitive and tender, need someone who can take care of your emotions and sentiments. Conversely, Aquarius needs a less affectionate partner who doesn’t restrict their freedom.

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15 Offbeat Thoughts About Life That Will Surely Make Your Day

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There are times when we feel saddened and depressed with adverse situations and unfavorable circumstances. During such conditions, motivation can be difficult to come by, and so are the smiles.

These 15 offbeat thoughts on life will surely bring a scintillating smile on your face and will redefine your perspective towards life.

1. We mature with the damage, not with the years.

2. You don’t have to be positive all the time. It’s perfectly okay to feel sad, irritated, annoyed, frustrated, scared, or anxious. Having feelings doesn’t make you a ‘Negative Person’. It makes you Human.

3. Monsters are real and they look like people.

4. I like people with depth. I like people with emotions. I like people with a strong mind, an interesting mind, a twisted mind, and also people that can make me smile.

5. All Single People are not really single. They have some untold stories.

6. A wise woman once said, “Fuck this shit” and she lived happily ever after.

Also Read: 5 Reasons That Prove Being The 21st Century Generation Is Just Awesome

7. “You think you know me? Think again.” – Scorpio

8. Just hold on. God knows what he’s doing.

9. You don’t know this new me; I put back my pieces differently.

10. “You will never understand the damage you did to someone until the same thing is done to you. That’s why I’m here.” – Karma

11. Don’t over think life. Trust that you made the right decision and keep moving.

12. The more I find myself, the more people I lose.

Also Read: Diary of a Girl Next Door – Part I – Secret Confession!

13. Sometimes all we need to feel happy is just the warmth of someone’s arms telling us, “Hey, don’t worry! I’m with you!”

14. If you feel too tired to speak, just sit next to me. Because I, too, am fluent in silence.

15. Sometimes miracles are just good people with kind hearts

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Unexpressed Emotions, Unsaid Stories and Unsung Battles…

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The worst part about depression is,

People who don’t have it, they just don’t get it

Has been a while since I penned down my real thoughts, Unexpressed Emotions, unsaid stories and unsung battles …

All I did was frown over the lost battles and mistaken shots, Looked down upon myself, smilingly accepting wrong blames …

I had become a part of a miserable mess, created with my own despondency, Perhaps that’s depression, that’s what it does to people – Cause Misery …

Hurricane of emotions at once and empty at the other stance, There were lighter nights and darker mornings, I felt broken not lonely

The fake smile got heavier on the face, the eyes craved to shed tears, Nothing moved a bit each time they said the three words, “Are you okay?”

Until one day I saw the Sun shine brighter and world gleam with joy, Sky seemed clearer than ever, life somehow seemed to make sense.

I saw a better version of me, the one that had identified the power of hope, And what it could possibly achieve! How the heart could smile so blissfully!

Yes, things take time but you got to keep trying, you got to be patient, It might not happen overnight but it will. I fixed myself, so shall you…

That’s what it does to people, that’s what hope does to people! Even though the agitation remains, I don’t fall anymore but fly… I dream…

 

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I Opened Up To You Even Though I Knew Better

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I succumbed to you, despite the fact that I knew you weren’t right.

When I initially met you, I knew you would give me inconvenience. Something about that sassy grin. Something about the way you snickered and made jokes. Something about the way you took a gander at me. Something about the way you influenced me to feel. I knew you weren’t right.

I, now, figure the most noticeably awful part is that I was cautioned about men like you – the smooth talkers, the loving backstabbers, the ones whose appeal can veil their most profound and darkest goals. What’s more, despite the fact that the signs were all over the place, waving their brilliant warnings, imploring me to pivot and to go no further, I disregarded them with expectations of demonstrating the Universe as wrong.

I Opened Up To You.

I could converse with you about anything. You supported me even when I was unaware that I required it. Some way or another you influenced me to surmise that you were what I was searching for. Not just that, you kissed me and revealed to me I was gorgeous and that I was what you were searching for. You made me believe that we’re meant for each other.

With each warm touch and with each promising and motivating word, I let you tear down my walls. And with every message you sent me, and every call you made to me, you let me trust that you were digging in for the long haul; that you were genuine.

Yet, now, as I lay here in my bed, alone, knowing very well indeed that you are out there setting your lure for the next, I’m proud that I understood your game before becoming a victim. You saw me as an amusement to be played. An empire to be conquered.

I knew you couldn’t have cared as much as you said or as much as your false signals would persuade. Be couldn’t I notice all of it much before? I could but I chose not to. I needed to absorb the sentiments of adoration. I needed to be a piece of something so gravely that I nearly risked myself.

You Weren’t One Amongst The Typical Bad Guys

You didn’t endeavor to hurt me or persuasively take my credulous heart. You were crafty and by one means or another persuaded me to offer it to you. Had I not been cautious enough, you would have rested my heart in your trophy case next to others.

Here’s what I Want You To Know Player

I have stolen a large portion of my heart back, yet there is a part of me that needs you to keep that last piece.

Because I’m certain that one day when I discover the love I’m searching for, you’ll feel the guilt of deception, the guilt of being savagely selfish.  I need you to take a gander at yourself and consider how you could be so cold as to treat me as you did; to lose me.

I need you to keep that little bit of me as a reminder that you once broke me… But I was more grounded. I collected myself, pulled out this and I discovered bliss regardless of your constant efforts to torment me with your moving in and out of the relationship every now and then.

You may have been sufficiently strong to break me, however I wasn’t weak either. 

Yet, in the event that it never happens, that you never realize what you made me suffer through, in the event that you never lament how things finished, I need you to realize that I’m glad. Happy without you. I’m proud of myself for being strong enough to move out of the toxic relationship before it was too late. I’m glad that I could move on with life even after all this. This contentment that I feel is the thing that drives me to continue making the most of my life regardless of you. It gives me trust in my capacity to continue walking ahead.

What’s more on the off chance, you never consider thinking about me again? Well, I trust you realize that I too intend to overlook you.

Gradually yet definitely, you’ve just begun to blur from my memories. Your scent, the feeling of your touch on my skin, your chuckle – it’s every one of the somewhat dimmer than it was some time back. I will overlook the surface parts of you, yet I will never forget how you broke me. Also that, how strong I was to overcome the game I was almost trapped into.

I think I see now the energy of intuition. First impressions aren’t always right, but the gut is never wrong.

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Know About The Amazing Benefits of Ginger Tea

The Adrak Chai is a new friend of yours. Nothing beats the topsy turvy day like a sip of ginger tea.

Be it any physical or mental pain with high levels of Vitamin C, magnesium and other minerals every malfunction is cured with Ginder Tea.  Moreover, Ginger is one of the most beneficial spices we have ever known.

As compared to other types of Tea, Ginger tea is more useful and here is why you should go for this soothing beverage. Benefits that Ginger Tea does are:

 Relief from Nausea

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Now you can travel without having the feeling of nausea by grabbing a cuppa Ginger Tea just before you leave for the voyage. It prevents the vomiting caused by the motion sickness. You can always have a cup to get relieved from the first sign of symptom of Nausea.

Bye-Bye Indigestion

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Ginger Tea helps you to improve stomach performance by enhancing the digestive system of your body. It increases the body’s ability to absorb food. Having plans for a party? Eat as much as you can, grab a cup of ginger tea and get relieved.

Say NO to Menstrual Pain

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This is for all the strong women out there. Soak a towel in Ginger and keep it on your lower abdomen and at the same time drink a cup of Ginger Tea with some honey added to it to get relieved from the menstrual cramps. It helps to relax your muscles and reduces the pain. The aftermath of drinking feels as fresh as a daisy!

Stressed? Have a cup of Ginger Tea

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A cup of Ginger Tea can absorb all your stress and anxieties. Now grab a cup to relax your mind and rejuvenate your mood by its tranquillising fragrance.

Beats Cancer

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It has been proven that Ginger has qualities to cure cancer, including Ovarian Cancer by negating the cancer cells.

Now weight loss is easy!

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Ginger Tea acts as a fat burner that flushes away the excess fat from your body making you thin and healthy. It makes you feel full in the stomach which helps to reduce the intake of calories and abates your weight.

HOW TO MAKE A GINGER TEA?

  1. Rinse the ginger root in running water thoroughly to remove all the dirt.
  2. Peel its skin and chop it into fine pieces. Be safe and avoid injuries while cutting.
  3. Take a pan and put some water to boil.
  4. Add the finely chopped ginger to the boiling water and cover it with the lid to prevent aroma from fading for 15 minutes.
  5. You can add few drops of Lemon or Some honey to sweeten the flavour.
  6. Serve hot and enjoy the ginger tea to get rid of the soaring muscles and various other problems listed above.

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Dear Society, We Are the 21st Century Generation & Not Guilty About It

We Are the 21st Century Generation

Even though the world has been modernized to an extent that is sometimes incomprehensible, yet there are certain things that we as a 21st Century generation have figured out for ourselves. Yes, we are not “Americanized” and neither are we a confused lot (I mean; only sometimes we are). We are not trying to bridge the yawning gap between two generations, just trying to pave our way to the World that can make peace with the two extreme outlooks.

We are not under bad influence, just stuck up in neither-here-nor-there culture and we are finding our way. But there’s one thing that we have figured out – We can never be like you. And honestly, we don’t feel guilty about it.

  1. Even for us Family is Top-Priority

Before you misjudge or misunderstand us, let’s get this fact clear. We may be different in our outlook towards life, and the definition of independence that we have learned is certainly beyond your acceptable limits but we undeniably love and respect our families as much as you do.

  1. We have become ‘Rightly Intolerant’

Yes, rightly intolerant! We are done with racism, caste, classicism and most significantly sexism. We believe in equality and respect for all. And that’s what we have been taught since childhood, isn’t it?

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